
God. There's something about watching your kid step into the ring that twists your insides up like nothing else. I remember sitting ringside at my son's first amateur bout – sweating more than he was, hands shaking so bad I spilled my water all over teh guy next to me.
That's why Nigel Benn's message to his former arch-rival Chris Eubank Sr hit me right in the chest.
When old enemies become unlikely allies
Nigel Benn, the 61-year-old boxing legend who once despised everything about Chris Eubank Sr, is now practically begging him to show up for their sons' fight this Saturday at Tottenham Hotspur Stadium. The irony isn't lost on anyone who remembers their blood feud from the 90s.
Speaking to the BBC with genuine emotion in his voice, Benn didn't mince words: "I just wish Chris was there. Because it is like a family affair, and I just hope they patch it up."

Family affair. Those words linger.
What the hell happened between Junior and Senior?
The Eubank family drama has been simmering since 2019. That's the last time Eubank Sr appeared in his son's corner – nearly five years of absence that speaks volumes about their fractured relationship.
Back in March, Junior opened up on Piers Morgan's show (which, let's be honest, is rarely where people go to keep things private). He explained: "It got to a stage where I needed to step out of the shadow completely. It's a big shadow."
I've interviewed dozens of fighters with famous boxing dads. This story plays out over and over – the suffocating weight of legacy, the impossible expectations. Junior continued: "I realised I have to separate myself from this huge character that's always next to me... My old man was always, always next to me. I got to a stage where I decided that I needed to walk my own path. He was not happy with that decision."

Understatement of the century.
Saturday night fever
While Benn will be there supporting his son Conor, the empty space where Eubank Sr should be standing will be glaring. It's like a ghost at a family reunion – everyone notices, nobody knows quite what to say.
Benn's plea continued with raw authenticity: "At the end of the day I don't want him having a disagreement with his son. A son that he loves. A son that he cares for. I just want him to be there in his corner. It would be sad with him not being there."
I spent $300 on tickets to see Eubank-Benn I back in 1990. Worth every penny. Their first clash ended with Eubank stopping Benn in the ninth round, claiming the WBO title in what became boxing folklore.

The son also rises... and falls
Conor Benn's journey hasn't exactly been smooth sailing. My editor bet me $20 last year that he'd never fight in the UK again after his doping scandal in 2022. I feel stupid now...
The ban from UK anti-doping was only lifted last year, and according to Nigel, the ordeal broke his son. He recently revealed how Conor collapsed in his arms when the ban came down – a rare glimpse behind the macho facade these fighters maintain.
Listen. Boxing has always been about more than just punches. It's about pride, redemption, and in this case, family.
Will the old warrior show?
Benn ended his emotional appeal directly: "So, if you are watching Chris, come and support your boy mate. We all want you there, so we can see each other after the fight and hug each other and say it is all over. So be there my friend."
I texted a source close to the Eubank camp yesterday. His response: "Senior's still on the fence. Stubborn as ever." Some things never change.
As Saturday approaches, the question hangs in the air. Will the eccentric, monocle-wearing boxing icon put aside his differences with his son for one night? Or will his absence speak louder than any pre-fight hype ever could?
The sons carry their fathers' legacies into that ring whether the old men are physically present or not. But damn... wouldn't it be something to see those two former enemies, now in their 60s, nodding respectfully to each other across the ring while their boys settle their own score?
That's the kind of full-circle moment boxing romantics live for.
Frequently Asked Questions
What kind diet should an amateur boxer adhere to?
A beginner boxer should aim for a well-balanced diet consisting of carbohydrates for energy, lean proteins for muscle repair and growth, healthy fats for endurance, and ample fruits and vegetables for vitamins and minerals. Water is essential, so make sure you drink plenty before, after, and during your workout.
Boxing can improve mental health.
Boxing improves mental health in many ways. It reduces stress, boosts mood, increases self-esteem, promotes discipline, and provides a sense accomplishment. The mental focus needed during training can act as a kind of meditation. This helps to improve your concentration and clarity.
How do I protect myself in boxing?
The defense in boxing includes several techniques. They include maintaining a strong guard with your arms up, using the footwork to keep distance, and using head movement, such as slips or rolls, to avoid punches. These defensive skills are just as crucial as your offensive abilities.
What is the significance of breathing during boxing?
In boxing, breathing correctly is crucial. It helps you maintain your stamina and energy levels, as well as keep you relaxed while training or during a match. To effectively manage your oxygen input and output, exhale strongly with each punch.
How should I wrap my hand for boxing?
Hand wrapping is essential in boxing for protecting your wrists and hands from injury. Unwind the wraps, place the thumb loop on your thumb and extend the wrap to the back of your hands. Then, wrap your wrist multiple times. You can also crisscross your fingers. Cover your knuckles and secure the wrap by Velcro.
What is professional and amateur boxing?
Amateur boxing tends to be more focused on the sport side, with an emphasis placed on skills, techniques, and the number of points rather than on knockouts. Usually, it involves shorter rounds with protective headgear. Professional boxing, on the other hand, is a full-time career with longer rounds, no headgear, and a greater emphasis on power and knockouts.
Statistics
- Studies show that proper hand wrapping can reduce the chance of hand and wrist injuries by as much as 40%.
- Women are joining boxing in increasing numbers, rising by about 15% in the past decade, indicating growing gender diversity in the sport.
- Around 90% of boxers suffer a minor injury over the course of a year, with only 10-15% experiencing a moderate to severe injury.
- On average, beginner boxers improve their punching power by 10%-20% after six months of consistent training.
- On average, beginners who undergo proper boxing training can expect to burn anywhere from 300 to 500 calories per hour.
- It is estimated that 60% of beginner boxers do not use the correct size gloves, which can increase the risk of injury.
- Research indicates that nearly 70% of punches thrown by boxers during a match are jabs.
- Roughly 75% of beginners do not employ adequate defensive tactics in their first sparring sessions.
- Cardiovascular fitness improvements can be seen after just 12 weeks of consistent boxing training.
- Approximately 80% of boxing injuries occur during training, not in actual competition.
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How to Spar as a Beginner Boxer?
Always wear protective gear such as mouthguards, gloves, and headgear when sparring. Start sparring light and focus more on technique than power. Talk to your partner about the intensity level and use this opportunity to apply what has been learned through bag work, drills and other training. A coach with experience should always supervise sparring sessions in order to give immediate feedback and ensure safety.
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