My Buddy's Wife is Actually Pretty Cool (And Other Things About Meredith Scudder)

By Lewis Barnett 20 July, 2025 8 mins read 339 Views

Look, I'll be honest with you.

I've been covering golf for like eight years now, and usually when I write about players' wives, it feels... weird. Forced. But watching Scottie Scheffler tear it up at The Open while Meredith cheers from the sidelines? There's something genuinely sweet about it that doesn't make me want to roll my eyes. Maybe it's because they actually seem to like each other, or maybe I'm just getting soft in my old age.

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High School Sweethearts (But Make It Less Cheesy)

Meredith Scudder was born May 12, 1996, in Texas – because of course she was. Her parents Michelle and Mark probably never imagined their daughter would end up married to the world's #1 golfer, but here we are. She grew up with siblings Andrew and Stephanie, graduated Highland Park High School in 2014, and that's where she met Scottie.

Here's what gets me though. Meredith once said about teenage Scottie: "At teh beginning of high school I always thought he had a super humble ambience about him, that he was just a really down-to-earth guy that doesn't take himself too seriously."

Even when he had amazing accomplishments, that wasn't the most important thing about him. God, can you imagine saying that about a high school athlete? Most of them are insufferable.

The University of Stupid Decisions

So get this – Meredith goes to Texas A&M University (communication and business major, graduated 2018), while Scottie chooses their literal rival school, University of Texas. I mean... what? That's like dating someone who roots for the Yankees when you bleed Red Sox.

But somehow they made the long-distance thing work. They'd visit each other regularly, which honestly sounds exhausting but also kind of romantic in a way that makes me feel dead inside.

Scottie, for context, was born June 21, 1996, in New Jersey but moved to Dallas when he was seven. By high school, he told Golf Digest: "My whole life, I knew how much I loved golf. It was the one sport I always wanted to be playing, regardless of the season." Kid had focus, I'll give him that.

The Proposal That Didn't Suck

They didn't start dating until senior year of high school, then kept it going through college. Scottie eventually proposed during a hike at Arbor Hills Nature Preserve in Texas.

A hike. Not some elaborate Instagram-worthy spectacle with rose petals adn a flash mob. Just... a hike.

Meredith's Instagram response was peak 2020: "YES! I can't believe God gave me my best friend to spend the rest of my life with, can't wait to be your wife, Scottie!!!! Blown away at the Lord's faithfulness and goodness to us. [LET'S] DO THIS!!"

They got married December 4, 2020, at Arlington Hall in Dallas after six years of dating. Winter Wonderland theme, because apparently that's a thing people do.

Baby Bennett Changes Everything

May 8, 2024. That's when little Bennett arrived.

Scottie posted the most dad-like Instagram caption ever: "Welcome to the world little one. Your mom and dad love you so much." Simple. Sweet. Makes you forget he's worth millions.

The timing though? Bennett was born exactly one week before the 2024 PGA Championship at Valhalla. Talk about cutting it close. Poor Scottie probably hadn't slept in days.

She's Not Just a Golf Wife (Thank God)

Here's what I actually respect about Meredith – she's got her own thing going. She co-founded With Purpose College Station, which supports families dealing with childhood cancer. She's the VP and event planner there, which sounds both meaningful and completely exhausting.

She's also an ambassador for Juice Plus (yeah, the nutrition company), and before all this she did internships in Zambia in 2016 and with Live Beyond in 2017. Plus she worked as lead event planner at Eatology.

Listen. I've met a lot of athletes' wives who seem to exist solely to look pretty at tournaments. Meredith actually does stuff. Real stuff that matters.

And honestly? Watching her celebrate with Scottie after his wins, you can tell she's genuinely proud of him, not just performing for the cameras. In a sport full of fake relationships and manufactured storylines, that's... refreshing.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the best way to maintain my golf club?

Proper care extends the life of your golf clubs and ensures they perform as intended. Cleaning club heads with soapy, soft-bristled water and a brush will help to remove dirt and grass from the grooves and head of your clubs. To remove debris from the shafts, wipe them down with a damp rag. Also, check grips to see if they need to be replaced. Store your clubs in a cool, dry place, as extreme temperatures and moisture can damage them. Protect woods, putters and other clubs from damage by using headcovers.

How can I determine my handicap in golf?

A golfing handicap is a measure of potential ability that allows golfers with varying levels of expertise to compete equally. For you to receive a handicap from your golf club, or a handicap agency, you will need to provide scores for at least one round (the number varies by country). This score is adjusted for the difficulty level of the course, and the tee that you played off. A specific calculation method averages out the best differentials from all the rounds. You can find out how handicaps are calculated by contacting your local golf club or national golf association.

What is the impact of golf course maintenance on my game?

Golf course maintenance includes a range of practices, from mowing and watering to aeration and topdressing. How a course's maintained can have a major impact on the game. For example, freshly aerated greens may be slower and less smooth, heavily watered fairways may play longer and softer, and tighter mowing patterns can lead to faster greens and fairways. Being aware of maintenance schedules can inform your strategy on the course. Check the rules and notices of your locality before you begin your round. These may contain information regarding temporary course conditions caused by ongoing maintenance.

How can I pick the right golf clubs for a shot?

The club you choose depends on the distance, the wind conditions, your ability level and any hazards. Woods are typically used for longer shots, whether you're playing from the tee box or fairway. Irons are used as you get closer and closer to your green. A lower number iron (like 4 or 5) is used for the longer approach shot, while a higher number iron (like 8 or 9) is for the shorter approach. A pitching/sand wedge will be chosen to hit precise shots near the hole. A putter will then be used to put on the green. Knowing the distance you need to hit each club for and what your average range is can help with club selection.

What are some of the basics rules for golf?

The R&A, along with the United States Golf Association(USGA), have developed a comprehensive set rules to govern the game of Golf. The core of golf is to hit a ball through the hole with a stroke. The key principles are to play the ball where it is, to play the course exactly as it is, and to complete the hole with the least number of strokes. There are penalties for breaking rules such as losing a golf ball, hitting the wrong shot, or playing from the opposite side of the hole. The game of golf is not only about the rules but also the etiquette. This includes considerations like safety, taking care of others and the course.

Can I play on my own? Or do I need a golf partner?

Golf can certainly be played solo, and many golfers enjoy the peace and personal challenge of playing a round by themselves. Solo play is a great way for you to improve your game. Golf is also a sport of social interaction, and playing golf with others can make the game more enjoyable. They provide competition, camaraderie, as well as the opportunity to learn. Golf courses typically allow for individual play, especially at quieter times. Some golf clubs may also pair up groups of singles during busy hours to maximize the use of their course.

What kind of golf ball is best for a beginner?

Beginners should select a golfball that offers durability, distance and good control. Two-piece golf balls are often recommended for beginners due to their hard outer layer and solid core, which make them less expensive, longer-lasting, and able to travel further distances. These balls are also less spinny and therefore offer better control. When a player develops their skills, trying out different balls (such as those with more spin or a soft feel) will help them refine their shot-making ability and preferences.

Statistics

More than 75% of beginners who participate in structured practice report feeling more confident on the golf course.
The average golfer spends about $500 on initial equipment when committing to learn the game.
About 85% of golf instructors recommend that new players focus on short game skills as an effective way to reduce their scores.
Junior golf programs have seen an increase in participation by approximately 20% over the past decade, indicating growing interest among younger players.
Nearly half of all beginners cite social interaction as a primary reason for continuing to play golf after their initial introduction to the sport.
It is estimated that over 90% of dedicated golfers maintain their equipment regularly, which aids in performance consistency.
Beginner golfers who invest in at least five professional lessons reduce their handicap by an average of 30% faster than those who do not seek instruction.

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How to choose the correct golf ball

You will get the best performance from your golf game if you select the right ball. Beginners can start out with two-piece balls made for durability and range. These balls have a forgiving core and hard cover. As you advance, try multi-layered balls for greater spin and feeling, which will enhance your ability to make shots around the green. Test different compression ratings in order to find a golf ball that matches your swing and meets your needs.