The Disgusting Reality Female Tennis Players Face That Nobody Talks About

By Lewis Barnett 17 July, 2025 6 mins read 294 Views

God, where do I even start with this one.

So Danielle Collins just did this interview on the Reign with Josh Smith podcast, and honestly? I've been following tennis for years, but hearing her describe what actually happens behind the scenes made my stomach turn. We're talking about a Grand Slam finalist here - someone who's reached the top of her sport - and she's dealing with cameramen literally kissing her face without permission and fans calling her a "b****" for... existing while female, apparently.

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When a "Hug" Becomes Assault

The story that really got to me was from early in Collins' career. Picture this: she's just lost a brutal three-set match, she's cramping, exhausted, probably just wants to crawl into a hole somewhere. And this cameraman approaches her asking for a hug because he's "so sorry" about her loss.

Collins looked at her coach, figured it was harmless enough, and agreed. What happened next is absolutely vile.

The guy didn't just hug her. He went in for a kiss and - I'm not making this up - "literally starts making out with a side of my face," according to Collins. Just... what kind of sick person thinks that's okay? She's 31 now, been dealing with this garbage for over a decade.

The Stalker Problem Nobody Discusses

Collins mentioned something that really stuck with me - she doesn't go places without security detail anymore. Think about that for a second. These women can't grab coffee or walk down the street like normal people because of "weird men" who show up at events, follow them to hotels, and basically terrorize them.

Emma Raducanu's situation earlier this year was absolutely terrifying. Some "fixated man" (love how they sanitize these terms) had been stalking her across multiple countries - Singapore, UAE, Qatar. During her match in Dubai, she spotted him just two points in and literally hid behind the umpire's chair while crying. The poor kid is 22 years old.

The worst part? This creep had given her a letter and asked for photos at a coffee shop the day before. Then he applied for Wimbledon tickets. Because apparently restraining orders are just suggestions to these people.

Why Collins Embraces Being Called a "B****"

Here's where Collins completely flipped my perspective on something. When fans call her a "b****" (which happens regularly, because tennis fans can be absolute trash), she takes it as a compliment.

Her reasoning? "So many of the women that I love and respect have been labelled as a 'b****,' and they're a badass woman." She's talking about women who get stuff done, who chase their dreams, who don't back down when someone's being a jerk.

Honestly, I never thought about it that way before. But she's right - assertive women get labeled with that word constantly, while men displaying the exact same behavior get called "passionate" or "competitive."

The Footage You Never See

Collins made this point that really hit home: when people see her getting upset with a cameraman on TV, they're only seeing a tiny clip. They don't see the persistent harassment, the boundary violations, the requests for "personal space" that get ignored.

"It definitely seems like when you're a female, if I use my voice and I push back and I ask a question or I set a boundary... it's like, how dare I," she explained. The double standard is nauseating.

She only speaks up when she's reached "boiling point" after sitting on issues for a "very long time." But viewers at home see her reaction and think she's being dramatic or crazy.

This Isn't Just Tennis

Look, I know this article is about tennis, but let's be real - this is happening everywhere. Collins just happens to have a platform and the courage to talk about it publicly.

The fact that a world-class athlete can't do her job without dealing with sexual harassment, stalking, and constant verbal abuse is absolutely unacceptable. And the fact that she's learned to reframe insults as compliments? That's both inspiring and heartbreaking.

Collins is retiring soon, which honestly might be the smartest decision she could make. But the next generation of female players shouldn't have to deal with this garbage. Something's got to change.

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